Femininity is Masochistic, Masculinity is Sadistic

(This is a part from the new draft of the ‘guide for the young patriarch.’ I deleted the older version of the guide and will publish here parts of the new version of the guide as I progress. The new version of the guide is written in a form based on informal logic.)

Alternative title:  Why you should be an asshole and treat women like crap

I am afraid that women appreciate cruelty, downright cruelty, more than anything else. They have wonderfully primitive instincts. We have emancipated them, but they remain slaves looking for their masters all the same,” Oscar Wilde.

Premise 1: All genes seek reproduction.

Premise 2: Our emotions are an expression of our genes.

Lemma 1, based on premise 1 and premise 2: Our emotions are constructed so as to facilitate reproduction of genetic material.

Premise 3: Sex is biologically cheap for men, compared with women (e.g. pregnancy, childbirth and breast-feeding vs. sperm).

Lemma 2 based on premise 3 and premise 1: Sex is a better biological deal for men compared with women.

Corollary 1 to Lemma 2: Men will prioritize quantity of lovers (more good deals, sperm is cheap) while women will prioritize the quality of their lovers (get best deal for the high price paid for sex).

Corollary 2 to Lemma 2: It is of more importance for women, compared with men, to acquire the male genetic data with the best possible chance of reproduction.

Premise 4: Men who dominated and exploited women reproduced better, compared with men that did not dominated and exploited women.

Contention 1, based on corollary 2 to lemma 2 and premise 4: Women will tend to be sexually attracted to men who exploit and dominate them.

Corollary 1 to Contention 1: Women are sexually repulsed from men they can exploit and dominate.

Corollary 2 to Contention 1: A woman in a power position over a man will tend to be sexually repulsed by him.

Corollary 3 to Contention 1:  Women sexuality is fulfilled when she is weak within her relationship.

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12 Responses to Femininity is Masochistic, Masculinity is Sadistic

  1. I think you need to include why Premise 4 is true – that women are subconsciously wired to believe that a man able to treat any woman poorly much have a plethora of women at his beck and call that he doesn’t need to worry about one individual woman to fulfill his highest function – that of reproduction. Thus, he has value and is desirable because he treats her like shit.

    Without that explanation, I’m not sure how much sense the contentions and correlations make in terms of being able to see the logical arguments and train of thought.

    • dicipres says:

      I intend to revise it and maybe divide to improve clarity. Here I just wanted to focus on why “giving” can reduce attraction but “taking” can increase attraction.

      Thanks for the input.

      • Gotcha. Thought each of your installments was meant to be viewed as one line of thought or argument. If you’re adding onto it or looking at a whole/larger picture it’ll work fine though

  2. Premise 4 is obvious. Tomassi says that women are the gatekeepers of sex, but that is true only after men have formed society complete with culture and politics and ‘rights’. Men are the gatekeepers of sex and they only allow themselves to pass.

    The last statement is money to me, and I am now internalizing it to try out in a philosophically direct, conscious manner: “Women sexuality is fulfilled when she is weak within her relationship.”

  3. Ares says:

    “Corollary 2 to Contention 1: A woman in a power position over a man will tend to be sexually repulsed by him.”

    I agree that this will be the tendency, _unless_ the power balance is offset by other attributes, such as major pre-selection from other women, very high physical attractiveness, etc.

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  5. Nora Merritt says:

    First of all, it just isn’t so that women are called to submit while men are not. In Scripture, every creature is called to submit, often in different ways and at different times. Children are to submit to their parents, although this is certainly a different sort of submission than that envisioned for marriage. Church members are to submit to faithful pastors (Heb. 13:17). All of us are to submit to the governing authorities (Rom. 13:1-7; 1 Pet. 2:13-17). Of course, we are all to submit, as creatures, to our God (Jas. 4:7).

  6. “The new version of the guide is written in a form based on informal logic.”

    “Informal logic”, and also a gross generalisation. Whilst I agree that on the whole femininity is masochistic in many respects (not to mention the female instinct to want to give birth, let alone actually going
    ahead and doing so, is inherently masochistic in so many physical – and even emotional, ways.), not all women are masochistic. Not all women wear uncomfortable clothing and shoes, not all women want children, and not all women want relationships with men – or indeed anyone. Some women are schizoid and relationships are like a form of torture and inhibits independence.

    Likewise, there are straight men who are extremely masochistic. There are men who like to be “punished” by their wives, and enjoy BDSM where he plays the role of the masochist! There are many different types of people out there, so whilst in most cases femininity is masochistic, there are many cases where it is not.

    Also consider that the female hormone oestrogen, has been linked with aggression and ‘macho’ behaviour!


  7. Lexi says:

    “Truth is more important than feelings”

    I agree. Truth is, we are all individuals. I will be logical and honest with you. Even IF – I emphasize the word “if”, as some scientific studies have shown females are masochistic because of nurture. Anyways, in all consciousness, even if the majority of women are masochistc, we are still all individual. I am not here to protect women’s rights or anything, I am just going to put the fact, out here in the open, that people, of both genders, different races, etc can be different, and it is both illogical and unfair to judge individuals based on those things, even IF the majority of that group are whatever you’re assuming. You never know.

    I myself, am in-between masculine and feminine. I am a model, look feminine, dress from punky to girly dresses, and I can kick an ass despite my feminine looks. I am sadistic ( but nothing too extreme ), and I have had, even masculine ass men submit to me. There ARE women who are dominant and men who are submissive. Just my life experience. Its more about your brain structure, genetically predispositions, personality, and points of view, not about your gender. Some women only submit because they are normapaths ( look it up! ) and some are submissive for real. I respect everyone’s right to choosing who they are. And remember, being a certain gender, race, religion, doesn’t make you better than others for those reasons, and it is cowardly to assume that. I am not offended or hating on this, just speaking the truth.

    Good day.

  8. Lexi says:

    Oh, and I almost forgot. Nowadays, in 2013, there is a thing called birth control. Hell, there are even birth control pills for men that were invented recently, in case you don’t know. And if you only judge your relationships by quantity, not quality, than you’ve got psychological issues. It’s risky for both men and women to f*ck around, because there are things called STDs and paternity tests, so men who sleep around and don’t want to take any responsibilities will have to take it too, and take care of the kid(s) they’ve made.

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